Table Talk October 26, 2008

HEART Unveiled

 

If you attended worship this morning, you may have noticed a few things.  Namely, service was held in Bradford Hall and instead of our lovely new pews, you spent the service on a folding chair.  But, you may have also noticed that the teens of our church were missing.  One of the hallmarks of a successful “lock-in” is that the teens are just too sleep-deprived to stumble into the service.  So, it looks like this lock-in can be soundly placed in the successful column.

 

If you have ever wondered what would possess a largely sane adult to hold a lock-in with a group of teens, rest assured it is actually a great idea.  The activities we do build community, foster a sense of cohesion, and ultimately create a great evening.  And the tenets of hosting a successful lock-in echo my philosophies for working with youth of all ages.  We are building a strong community, a strong family, and a strong faith.

 

The strength of that community is summed up with the youth group’s new name.  We have “named” ourselves HEART:  Honoring Each, Always Rallying Together.  The belief in accepting each teen for him/herself and supporting each teen through the challenges of life are what make our youth group a very strong and supportive place. 

 

One of the first activities of the evening was viewing the movie, “The Five People You Meet in Heaven,” based on Mitch Albom’s novel of the same name.  I wanted to share this story with our teens because of the last paragraph of the book.  It is not a biblical story as much as a beautiful parable about the ripples our lives create in others’.  Albom says it this way, “that each affects the other and the other affects the next, and the world is full of stories, but the stories are all one.”

 

That sense of “one-ness” is key to my understanding of Jesus’ teachings.  I read the gospels of Jesus’ life as testimonies of Jesus’ quest to bring all of God’s children into one great community – a community of love, support, and generosity.  If we can honor each person we meet, here on earth, then we as a people will not only find comfort in rallying together.  We will find peace.

 

As a youth director and as a CE Coordinator, it is my hope that the community I help to create with the teens of First Congregational UCC will generate ripples that travel widely.  For each youth who finds honor, acceptance, and love here at First Congregational UCC, thousands of strangers will be positively affected as well.  As Albom says, “strangers are just family you have yet to come to know.”

 

Let us never forget that we are but one family in God.

 

National Youth Event Promo

 

A Light in the Dark

To celebrate our new year, the Youth Group had a Lock-In on January 3rd. One of the traditional highlights of the event was a rousing game of Sardines – but with the added fun of playing the game in the dark. For those of you not conversant in the ways of Sardines, Sardines is much like “hide-and-seek,” except that when a person finds the “hider,” he or she hides WITH the hider, until the last “finder” joins the group, and becomes the “hider” for the next round. As you may well imagine, the hardest part is not finding the hidden person, but staying silent while waiting to be found. While it is not difficult for one person to be silent, it is a challenge for a group – especially if that is a group of 10 teenagers. And, of course, doing all this in a darkened church only heightens the potential for laughter.
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Table Talk, 11/11/07

I was walking past the calendar and nearly had heart failure. November 11th. Veteran’s Day. How could that be? Wasn’t it August just a moment ago? Then, I went outside and saw my neighbor’s latest Christmas decoration: a snowman with a digital read-out counting down the days and hours until Christmas. When did my life get stuck in the “fast-forward” mode? Was it when I became responsible for three small people’s holiday memories? Or was it when I started measuring my life in the distance between paychecks?
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